I pulled out the stack of recipes gifted to me, and only had to pick up two things after church on Sunday December 1st Ground Chuck and dry parsley. This excellent cook was so detailed on her recipe card she even told me she uses 85 or 90% lean chuck. I love that kind of detail! I can honestly say I did not know that parsley came dry. I have never bought it wet either. 😊 I have this issue with spices that I might as well interject here. They often expire before I have used them even twice. Seriously, I had to hunt for the photo I took cleaning out my spice cupboard a couple of years ago. Twenty-five + bottles bit the dust, and likely over $100. I have slowly added each back as needed. So, when shopping for this elusive dry parsley, I said “Well, when does this expire?” January 2025. What?! That is two months. NO way. I am not proud of my next move, but I took every bottle out and grabbed the last one, May 2025. That is still too soon. I surmised this must be something that people use quickly or often. Let’s see if I use it again before May. I bet not. I think there should be smaller bottles of spices so there is less waste, and we spend less when the expiration is so quick. McCormick, do you hear me?
I sent these photos to my sister in December of ’22 when I cleaned out all the expired items in my spice cupboard. Kudos to Melissa for keeping the photo for 2 years so I could use it now. I challenge you to do the same and post a photo. I suppose those that cook often and know how to use a sprinkle of this and a pinch of that will have no expired spices. Overachievers. 😊

This week’s meatloaf is compliments of my friend Twyla. To the left of the beautiful recipe card, it says, “very delicious” and it is titled “Best Ever Meatloaf with Veggies”. Can one person tell me they do not have the ‘best’ meatloaf? Does anyone reading this have one with a name that says, “So-so Meatloaf Recipe”?
As the meatloaf was cooking tonight, I was working on a hundred tasks. Mondays have also become laundry day, change the sheets day, water the plants day and pay the bills day. If I’m going to cook, I must be home. None of these things were ever regular while I worked. So, here is another benefit with Meatloaf Mondays; a bit of structure for all the household tasks that used to be put off or squeezed in between all else in life.
I could smell this meatloaf baking down in the crevices of our basement. It had the whole house wrapped up in the aroma. Terry walks in and says, “Oh, this one must have garlic.” I said, “You can’t possibly smell garlic.” He laughed because he said he saw the little jar of garlic in the fridge. I learned this week you can buy garlic in a little jar. I don’t have to buy fresh garlic that goes bad and gets thrown away? Brilliant. I pulled out the ‘best ever meatloaf’ out of the oven and Terry says, “This is the most amazing looking roast beast ever. It’s huge.” I think the roast beast comment is because it’s Christmas time and he was channeling his Grinch memories. Anyhow, Terry is a big fan of cooked carrots and potatoes too. When I start to serve his meatloaf, the first thing he does is gets the ketchup out of the refrigerator. I thought this was odd as he hasn’t taken a bite yet. He explained it was for the potatoes. “Why don’t you take a bite before you slather it all in ketchup? They have been cooking with the meatloaf.” He agrees and says, “Great idea!” He takes a bite of the potatoes and just goes crazy with how good they are. Then he eats the meatloaf, and he raves and raves and raves. “Oh my gosh, this is so good” he finally says after his second or third piece when he came up for air.
I grab a fork, and I taste this meatloaf too. It is good. Terry says, “I taste something in this. I don’t know what it is. There’s no green pepper, is there?” I must have traumatized him with that pepper. Then he asks about onion. I said, “Yes there is actually onion but only a small amount.” A ½ cup is the standard I followed. I tell Terry there are also a lot of other ingredients. This recipe had far more ingredients and details than any other recipe thus far. About 20 without the potato and carrot recommendation. After a long time, Terry says, “9.9.” Wait! I know this is much better than mine. He said, “I can’t give it a rating higher than yours.” I thought that was so sweet until later that evening he said he couldn’t give it a 10 because “you’ll never make meatloaf again”. He wasn’t being kind to protect my feelings. He was being pragmatic. Self-preservation was in play for his Monday dinners. That’s not how we play this game. He has to be honest. We decide at this juncture the winner at the end of the project will go up against “my 10”. They will be cooked on the same night for a blind taste test. Maybe we will invite the highest scorers to eat and blind taste test as well. This will be fun!
This week the recipe is by our friend, Twyla. Her recipe also called for a few different items I had not seen before besides the dry parsley. The minced garlic, which I mentioned I bought in a little jar. Panko breadcrumbs and white vinegar are new for week 5. Plus, as you can see from the photo this one is quite the presentation.

I do know my friend Twyla to be quite the cook. It doesn’t surprise me that she would produce a recipe that is a 9.9. But that made me start to think of something about recipes. Does a recipe have to be created by you to be your recipe? To get credit for that recipe, does it have to be your creation or just something you are known for and after so many family gatherings it becomes your dish? I realize I get credit for the apple dumplings and peanut butter pie, when as I said in the welcome of the blog, I got these recipes from other sources. Do I have to give credit to the people who gave me the recipe every time somebody compliments me on it? “Yes, thank you. These are Cynthia’s apple dumplings.” Is this an ethical dilemma? How do I know that this apple dumpling recipe started with Cynthia? When she taught me how to make these apple dumplings in her kitchen many years ago, did she not tell me where she got the recipe from? Her secret caramel sauce makes them the best. It’s not like we’re all Rachael Ray or Bobby Flay. I guess for this experiment and because I don’t know the backstory on all these recipes unless somebody credits their great grandmother, we will say this is Twyla’s and so far, she has given the traditional Terry Schnipke family meatloaf, a run for its money.
Here is Twyla’s recipe.

I was going to type it out with the front and back, but I had to use photos so you can see all the love and details such as “very delicious” in upper left corner. She is not wrong. I might just like meatloaf after trying this one. Twyla also notes using her hands to mix. So, I did. And she is not wrong about that either. It does mix well and there is deep satisfaction to this process.

This is the week I decided to make this project a formal blog. To this point it was just my notes and personal satisfaction. With the growing fascination and requests for information about how the project was progressing, I had to get over whether sharing my thoughts on meatloaf, life and anything in between is egotistical or stupid. Meaning, does anyone care what I have to say? Or do they care what Terry thinks about meatloaf? Or even how to keep the joy and fun in marriage after 35 years. Then I remembered a conversation with my friend Kari about retirement. We talked about finding what we like that will make us happy, give us purpose or satisfaction, learning to do something new or growing an interest. I had heard much about how some people struggle with retirement. Some people were bold enough to share that they believed I would struggle as I was always in overdrive on every idea and project. I justified my hours and fast pace were because the work was for the betterment of lives of those we serve…But I knew it was time to find new interests. Never did I think it would be meatloaf. But is this about meatloaf only? Nope.
I love to write, and I love a good story, especially when I can remember them. I also knew I needed to learn to stick with a project long term v. flying from crisis to crisis with no downtime like the last 10 years. Even if there was no one except my closest family and friends to read it, it will be fun. There are always new questions for me to ask such as, I wonder when meatloaf was first invented. How did it get the name? That will have to be researched on another day.